Female chauvinist

I remember the incidence that occurred 2yrs back. My collegue called me female chauvinistic. I didn't even know what that meant. I made a weird face and ignored her.
I looked up the dictionary, being partial /biased. May be she was right. I was a pakka member of 'forever alone' / lukkha group. So all my friends always had all sorts of negative stories to tell. Most of it could be drama but I took it for real. Girls shaped up as villains in my mind.
I myself was a fattu to go up to a girl n strike a conversation. I failed to understand the one's in my family too, they got on my nerves all time, idk why.
Over time they were pictured as egotistical, exploiting and selfish, grandiose. Thoughts could turn into beliefs which get integrated in your nature. So, they were highly ignored and kept out of my life. Not that I went on a crusade or something. I did have respect for them. It was kind of passive aggression.
But I came to realize, rather late, I was wrong. All types could be found in both sexes. For I didn't see doesn't mean a positive side exists. May be I won't wake up one fine morning as a changed person. I wish to tell that colleague of mine, she was right.